Q: Cohousing as a housing model for people with autism and similar disabilities. Why?
A: Cohousing may very well be the solution for eliminating isolation and abuse and increasing quality of life. Why? Because cohousing offers a safe and supportive environment. All residents get to know each other. It offers opportunities for social interaction without sacrificing privacy. It creates opportunities to contribute, to share resources and experiences, and to learn how to cooperate. Our community will be unique in that it will have large shared space specifically designed for autism and similar disabilities. Sensory rooms and Quiet Corners which help soothe, engage, and calm, will be throughout the common spaces, both indoors and out. Daily social opportunities designed around residents' interests ensure ample opportunity to be engaged and get to know one's tribe.
Q: Why a Christian cohousing development?
A: Cohousing developments are built around core values: be it environmental, seniors aging in place, etc. Our families are Christian, and we want the environment to have an open Christian climate. We recognize that not all family members may be Christian and that is okay. We simply ask that everyone choosing to have community in Abundant Life support that climate and not be against it.
If the Common House is seen as an extension of our living room, then by that definition, we want our kids to feel welcome to sing Jesus Loves Me and not feel suppressed.
We also recognize that just getting to church is sometimes a struggle. For that reason we plan on having an optional ministry program.
That said, we believe this housing model answers some of the existing gaps in the options currently available to those with disabilities and their families. With that in mind we want to help other communities be established. We are willing to help any group of potential cohousers once we are settled.
Q: Isn’t this a group home?
A: No. Group homes typically offer services. The only thing Abundant Life offers is fantastic social opportunities and a rich community life. Individuals and families are responsible for hiring any needed supports just as they would if they lived anywhere else in Alberta. Choice is important to us! Special needs adults can choose to live independently, with their families, or with a roommate or two of their choosing. We can help facilitate this so we increase our odds of successful roommate choices.
Q: Is it Abundant Life Autism or Abundant Life Cohousing?
A: Both! When we started Abundant Life, we were autism specific, hence the website's name. We have since opened to anyone desiring community, and we never did want a diagnosis in the actual title of the property once it's built. Our core group decided together to start using Abundant Life Cohousing more, as it will be the name of the final finished community. An easy way to remember is this: Abundant Life Autism is our title during development, Abundant Life Cohousing will be the physical finished community.
Q: My child has a strong need for stability, continuity, and familiarity. Moving from where we are into Abundant Life will cause so much stress for him or her. Why would we want that?
A: The need for familiarity and routine are indeed hallmarks of autism, however, the need for stability and continuity needs to be extended past the here and now, and past a parent’s lifetime. The reality is that for many of our kids, once we are gone, the risk of isolation and abuse will increase. Consider this: what will my child be doing when they are 65 years old? What about 80 years old? Will his or her quality of life suffer after I’m gone? If your child will be living with a sibling: what happens when one passes? Will isolation set in then? How can I be sure my child won't be moved about after I'm gone?
For our family, we decided that our child’s sibling could be involved on a voluntary basis. For example, they could choose to travel and vacation together, spend summer months together, spend every Christmas break together. It could be something siblings look forward to, not a chore that may lose it’s glimmer someday. We wanted to set our son up while we are here to help walk him through the stress of moving, to be there to support him through it and see him eventually settle. He will adapt because we will help him. When we pass away, he will be fine. He will still have a supportive community around him, people who care about him, and he will still have his first of the month Christmas club, Friday’s movie nights, among other activities he will have come to look forward to. Even though he will grieve the loss of us, he will have the stability of his home, his friends, his routine, and none of that will change. Life will go on, and many eyes and hands will ensure he is fine.
Q: Integrity. Dignity. Respect. Choice. Preference. Will the adults with disabilities have a voice?
A: Absolutely! We plan on working with professionals and parents to present choices to our adults with autism, from general housing options to roommate choice, unless of course, they choose to live independently in a one bedroom unit.
Q: Who will live in Abundant Life?
A: We anticipate between 12 to 14 people with autism or similar disability, each living as they choose, either with their chosen roommate/s or alone in their own condo type suite or home, or with their family. Their parents or guardians can live in their own home next door, across the garden, or at the end of the lane. Any family member, friend, or supportive person to a resident may own their own unit within the community and benefit from the richness that comes with cohousing. We will also have a limited number of units available for singles or families who feel a call to live missionally within our community. Our guesstimate for numbers is roughly 70 people in 25 individual homes.
Q: What will it cost?
A: Costs vary greatly in cohousing, but tend to be comparable to the market value of houses in the area. Cohousing can be cheaper in the long run because individual homes are typically smaller. Homes do not need a spare bedroom, laundry room, art room, garage, workshop, or gym, because those rooms can be shared resources in the Common House. On the other hand, cohousing can be more expensive initially because as a group, people often choose premium quality and energy efficient building components, rather than the cheaper, standard materials more commonly available. These decisions will be made together as a group, and the choices made will dictate the cost.
A general rule of thumb for cohousing costs is this: if you own your own home currently, you can afford cohousing.
Our peoople on AISH are able to own or co-own their home, and it would be wise to help set aside some of their income to start saving for this.
In addition to the costs of owning your own home in Abundant Life, there will be condo fees to cover the maintenance of the common house and common grounds. Affordability is an important aspect for most of our members, so we are not ruling out the possibility of leases and rentals.
All costs will be without markup, as nobody is in this to make money.
Q: So, you’re not asking for donations?
A: For our own homes? Of course not!
Having said that, we realize that much of our shared space will be extraordinary due to the extraordinary needs of autism or similar disabilities. If this were a neurotypical space, we wouldn’t need commercial grade indoor and outdoor swings, hammocks, sensory spaces, or adult sized playground equipment. We wouldn’t need top rated sound insulation, diffused lighting, unbreakable windows, or blinds built within the window panes. If it was a neurotypical Common House we wouldn’t need extra space so that nobody ever felt trapped. We wouldn’t need little spaces tucked away that are designed to calm, and we likely wouldn't need aging-in-place accessibility features, like an elevator, ramps, and wider doors.
Aside from the needs, there may be disability related desirables, such as a pair of therapeutic riding horses and the costs to care for them (if the zoning allows,) a few pinball or arcade games to draw our people out of their homes and into the common space, a room full of washable recliners to create a Common House theatre. Perhaps a few computer stations, aquariums, or light tables may contribute to a peaceful and interesting environment. Maybe an indoor solarium that feels like a jungle getaway that would offer a year-round retreat for stress management and self-care. Perhaps vocational opportunities can be worked into our model, with an optional shop or bakery open to the public.
There will be many features needed directly due to our neurodiverse population. For these extraordinary spaces, we will consider grants, individual, and corporate sponsors.
If you know of someone or an organization that would like to make a lasting difference for people with disabilities, please do pass along our information. In doing so, you become part of the Village, so thank you!
Q: Location. Where will this community be?
A: In Calgary! We have decided that SouthWest is preferable, followed by SouthEast and then North locations.
Q: Timeline: when will this be done?
A: Cohousing developments can take as little as 3 years, and as much as 10 years to develop. Many factors impact development timelines. Our families are special needs families; we are busy and tired. However, our desire and sheer determination to give our kids a great life will ensure the process does see completion!
Q: Why join the group now?
A: There are 3 great reasons to join now:
Q: How do we become members?
A: Memberships begin with low cost and low risk (Associate Membership) while you explore if this is a good fit. If yu decide to continue with Abundant Life, you would become an Equity Member and comit to contributing your time and talents to getting this community built. For more information, visit our MEMBERSHIP section.
There is space for you. Come grow with us!